She didn't? She didn't go through that attraction phase or 'friendship' phase , she just picked the guy out and jumped him?
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You're assuming the attraction phase and friendship phase took a long time to facilitate.
When a woman really wants to be in a relationship with a man, she makes it easy, she doesn't make it difficult. You ever notice people who are in affairs, always "busy" when the affair is new, always "working late", always have a "business thing to attend", always "going out with friends, drinking too much, staying over night", always "too busy to do something" with their spouse and family, always making excuses so that they can make time to be with their affair partner. She does whatever she can to make time for the other man, to be with him, the affair is like a drug, she needs it and she needs it now and makes excuses to get it as often as possible - there is no easing into it.
Jack, you and I will always have two different opinions for dealing with people who cheat on their spouses ;-)
Rob
I agree with you most of the time, but the romance level of an affair and reconnecting with the father of your children just isn't the same. The decision to work on your marriage is not based on hormones. The decision to have an affair is.
