It's true... It starts as a good friendship, and that's all. (at least from a woman's point of view). There is something these relationships give us that we're not getting at home...more than just the sex we're not having. it's that connection that is powerful and, yes for a woman... That's what leads us to wanting to make it more.

Even though I don't beg H for sex, not having it in our relationship for so many years depressed me... Made me stop caring about a lot of things. The Emotional Affair builds you up, makes you feel alive again... For the OM.