P.S. (damned EDIT feature doesn't work ... grrrr....)
I meant to say that BOTH her phone calls/texts to OM in the last 24 hours, AND her call to attorney, are BOTH "bait." And she has a speech concocted much as I just wrote in the post above, only she adds to it something like " . . . and FOR YOUR INFORMATION, the reason I was texting OM last nite WAS TO TELL HIM I CAN'T SEE HIM AGAIN. I was GOING to break it off, but now that you've reminded me of how CONTROLLING you are, YOU JUST BLEW ANY CHANCE WE HAD AT RECONCILING!"