So if she needs to go, absolutely needs to go, maybe one of your daughters would also like to go. Compromise, Mom and daughter sleeps in the same room.
Not the same as trust.
But if she is ok with the idea...maybe nothing was planning on happening.
As an aside,
You wife is heading out of town to see an art exhibit and a film. Something that is not your thing. Is your wife your thing? Is spending time and doing stuff with her your thing?
I'd personally expand your list of 'things' otherwise someone else...like this old BF might.
You may want to think about why I recommend saying this to your wife:
"Wife, I have been thinking and have decided that I am OK with you going to the art show and film."
Wait and watch and listen to her response.
Then say
"I have decided that it would be a fun time and I have booked us a room."
Then really, really, really watch her and see if her facial expressions, body language changes. You will then know the truth.
not a bad idea, I like it!
- maybe add that you've spoken to his wife and she said she will speak to the OM and do the same, make it a double date ;-)
