yea, I hope this is not the case either. I am watching.. I was pretty quick to suspect the EA and got the records to prove it happened. Then I confronted. Then the crazy crap the last few weeks and her turnaround on Halloween, after I went out with my friend, told her to get out and I was moving on.. she came to me and told me she doesnt want a divorce and now is trying to work it out.. although her committment affection level is lower than I would like, she says she needs time to ease into it.. I am not sure if that is normal or if she is holding back because she feels loss from the EA...
it bends the mind.
It's not normal and it's bull$hit, she didn't need time to ease into her affair and I'm sure if given the chance, she wouldn't need to ease into her committment affection level.
This isn't how women act when they're really into the men they want to be with.
At least you're being honest with us, now you have to be honest with yourself, this isn't good enough for you, you're settling for this behavior and you shouldn't have to settle for anything especially when dealing with a spouse who was having an affair.
Tell her that you're not sure about her anymore and you have to think about things and start going out with your friend again.
