Poe, No I do not. I have not read that. I did buy the SSM book but I do not remember that being part of the book. Can you help me out here?
The more I can learn the better and hopefully I can get him to look at material. Unfortunately he doesn't put a whole lot of stock in "counseling". I personally think it makes him look a little too closely at things he'd rather not!
I also believe in many ways he has never been really motivated to get counseling because I have always been more than eager to work things out. Twice he has gone to ONE counseling session with me but as soon as I returned to the family home he refused to go back.
I have told him before that he, more than most people I know, could really benefit from counseling. He is an extremely private person and would find it very difficult to open up to a counselor.
Anyway, any help you can direct me to will be followed up on ASAP. Thanks Poe!