Also, the when I do this is important. I was thinking until waiting until January as I don't want to do anything drastic over the holidays, but do you think that's too long to wait?
That gives me some more time to save money too. I should probably ask him for that $500 he owes me too before I tell him I'm not talking to him anymore :-)


Me: 29
H: 30
Married: 06/08
Bomb: 05/10