Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
You would rather have Pen, take her back, trust her completely and she doesn't have to earn it back? You don't think that is a disaster waiting to happen?

I still believe

Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
as of september 30th you were separated, go out, start acting single. do you a world of good.

nothing here has convinced me to not say it again.


Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
You've been here awhile, what happens when the spouse comes back


And I have been around the block, several times, and what happens when a spouse gets caught.

1st thing. they say, we need to cool it my husband knows and I can't lose my kids over this. or I am not losing my career over this right now. or I have been through this with my first wife take some time to figure out what you want to do...

then. someone is driving by someone elses house and calling and hanging up and sending up smoke signals

and alot depends on who did the breaking up and what the other person feelings are for getting put on hold or dumped.

or they are just "cooling off"