100% the 30 year old ex is a scumbag. I'd sooner trust a pack of dingos to babysit my youngest son than his intentions.

But his wife?
Either something has happened or something is planning on happening, or nothing has happened but she likes the 'feeling' of attention and attraction as all those chemicals flood her brain.

Toby, you're not sure if you trust your wife...ehh judgement call on your part.

BUT you sure as hell shouldn't be trusting the 30 year old ex in regards him honoring the boundaries of your wife's marriage to you.



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