you've kinda avoided the question but I'll take another stab at you just for the heck of it..
you say that physical touch is your primary love language..that's fine and understandable.
you then say that your w doesn't want to be intimate with you in any way.
do you understand that people view intimacy in different ways?
you say that your w loves to talk...
is it possible that w is being intimate or trying to be intimate with you through talk? otherwise known as quality time?
you say that you'd rather be alone than listen to her talk?
what if she'd rather be alone than be physically intimate with you?
this is why I asked you if w is warm and loving in "OTHER" ways than physical...what if you could try to actually appreciate and find some enjoyment in those ways? what if you could show her you are capable of also being intimate with her in those ways?
Do you think it possible that if you show appreciation for her way and try to speak in her way that she may be more accepting of your way???
after all right now she is rejecting your way of expressing intimacy and you are complaining about it calling her a frigid bitch, what if she's perceiving you as a cold hearted dog who just wants to get laid?
do you get where I'm trying to go with this?
keep in mind I am NOT some ld woman trying to convert you..I am a hd woman with a ld h who is dealing with the same issue only in reverse.
