And not sure anyone made the accusation, which IS ridiculous, that you suggested Steve.
Emergency repairs to a Crown...does not a root canal make. The assumption here is that she did indeed come home drooling, something Pen never mentioned.
You would rather have Pen, take her back, trust her completely and she doesn't have to earn it back? You don't think that is a disaster waiting to happen?
You've been here awhile, what happens when the spouse comes back and isn't willing to rebuild trust?
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