I probably wouldn't have done anything for Halloween if my boyfriend hadn't insisted lol.
Glad you get to see the boys soon.
Sounds like you are definitely in a friendlier place with your W. I am sure that makes co-parenting easier. Hopefully you can continue to build on that.
As for why she has dropped the D issue, who knows. She could be reconsidering, or she could just be being lazy. There is no way to tell without talking to her about it.
At some point, I think most of us get to a point where we become determined that we do not want to be married to someone who does not want to be married to us.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2