Today at 3pm my girlfriends at work are taking me for happy hour and then pizza and wine for dinner.

Then my H is meeting me for drinks for my b-day. I will let everyone know how that goes. We both agreed that we don't want the girls to know because thier expectations are already very high that we are getting back together and I don't want them getting excited when we are SOOOOOOOOO far away from getting back together.

The OW is still in the picture - she is still his self-medication for his depression.

Regardless, I am looking forward to a great birthday weekend!

TAMF
m:41
xh:41
T: 20
M: 15
D: 16
D: 14
Bomb dropped: 7/3/10
separated: 7/15/10
H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11
divorced: 8/26/12