Not that you should necessarily do this, but on my cell plan (Verizon) I can block calls to/from any of the phones on my account, I can also limit texting, etc. Are you paying for this phone that she is using to text the OM?
She's lazy so if I cancel texting she'll find another way to talk to him that I probably can't track. If I leave it open then she'll use it and I can see whats going on. I like it this way.
Why can't you drop the texting service from your plan? And you are right about her CB regarding the budget just be prepared for more of the same. Don't expect a full frontal envasion like in D-day just persistent BS attitude. Anyway, you have already experienced it!
We are sending pookie out to you with his chastity belt (we think he is done with it) just in case she tries the lovy dovy stuff and tags you. Judo, remember we are men and sex is our kryptonite and women know it! Stay firm (probably the wrong term here), but hold to your position and don't buckle, negotiate or go tit for tat with your W.
The risk though, is that you get no real intel other than the fact that they are texting, and you are showing her that you won't do anything about it even if she is doing it in your face.
I'll consider it but I have thought it over and I think its of value. As far as intel is concerned theres actually a lot that you can tell from communication patterns without actually knowing the contents of a message. I work in computer security and cryptology is a minor interest/hobby of mine. If yoru really interested look up traffic analysis
You are right that your W will find another way to contact the OM via smoke signals, etc. as long as she is attracted to him and not you. And you will continue to obsessed with the sitch as long as you spy. It took a 2x4 from soleil and others to get me to stop spying on my W and once I did I was able to focus on me.
What are you doing to change the dynamic in your R? Yesterday,you showed your W a real man! I am not sure if she menatlly mature enough to compare the man that she M to the man-boy that she is fixated with, but if she is not then maybe she is not worthy of you. Hold the high ground and take away the comforts that are not necessary to live your life!
