I am with Star on verifying it.

Pen if she is truly wanting to work on your (plural) marriage she should be understanding of your desire to verify trust.

I think Puppy, Robx, Coach alot of the other heavy hitters here call it transparency.

You should ask around about it.

If she is wanting to rebuild trust with you, she should except some scrutiny on your part.


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