Hi Dan,

I would like to suggest that you reflect on this more:

Originally Posted By: DanF
Regardless, when I finally did accept that there was more that I should do, doing those things just drove her further away. Go figure.


My understanding is there is a deeper level to the onion. The "bitching" comes from the subconscious based on the disconnect in the relationship. Your timing was off on doing the things she complained about and was viewed as pursuing.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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