Forgot to add this:

In our discussion last night, it came out that he gets upset whenever we discuss the possibility of a S/D because I treat it like a business transaction -- about the money and whether or not I will be able to survive financially. I tried to validate -- "So you feel that I am using you financially?" "Sometimes, yes."

Trying not to mind read, but I get the feeling that he doubts my love for him.


Me: 36
H: 36
S9 (from my previous marriage)
D2
Bomb-date: 4/7/10
10/10 Giving it six months to see what happens