Is there any hope for us? 2

[pinhead]

I have this overwhelming desire to call my husband right now and beg for forgiveness and tell him I'd do anything to get another chance.

Don't let your emotions drive your actions.

[Lostinlife]

I have this overwhelming desire to call my husband right now and beg for forgiveness and tell him I'd do anything to get another chance.

It won't do you any good at this point, hold off. There will be better circumstances to make contact.

[MakingProgress]

Have you told him this in the past and already apologized to him?

[Steve McQueen]

DO IT.

[bustorama]

DO IT.

???? Nooooooooooooo. It will just piss him off more, come across as selfish. Walk, exercise, call friend, family member, journal, go in shower and scream, jump and down 100 times then moonwalk.

[sandi2]

DO IT.

Why McQueen?

[MakingProgress]

I think if she has said it, she shouldn't say it again, but if she hasn't said it, it really needs to be said.

[MakingProgress]

. . . but in an non-emotional way.

[Steve McQueen]

Maam, you need to quit obsessing over what you did and what has occurred. You are becoming a depressive mess.

If you need to say it to him. Say it.
Saying "I'm sorry" for what you did may piss him off more, but that would be his issue to deal with.
You should just deal with your issues and get over them.

Would you think it would be better to act like you did nothing wrong and he is the loser and should be pining over you and asking to rub your feet and do the dishes and saying he is sorry?

[So Ashamed]

I had a bad night last night and called and left him a voicemail. Told him I thought we should talk.

This morning at 6:00 a.m. he sent me a text that said "Email me whatever it is you have to say to me".

ugh. I wish we could talk face to face.