So I got home last night from work and my wife was at the house. I walked in the garage and she was sitting there waiting for me. She gave me a big hug and said that we needed to talk.
She told me she was not going back to OM house, she had made arrangements for a girlfriend to collect all of her things and she was staying at this friends house. She said she wanted to make things work between us. She said i was her best friend, her true love and she messed up. She wants to make it work, she is scared but it is worth the risk. She told me what she needed from me for the relationship to work and asked what i needed from her.
I told her i need complete transparency about the affair, i didnt want details, but i needed to know what the OM provided that i didnt. She told me, she told me that she would let me see anything i wanted, give me any and all passwords.
She will stay where ever I direct her too, and she will invest everything she has into making it work.
She spent the night on my couch so she could spend the morning with the children and take them to school. When I got up this morning, I made her a pot of coffee, left her a note thanking her for our talk and wished her a good day. I also left her the keys for my truck so she could drive the kids to school as I know she had no gas in her car. I left the note on the coffee table. she sent me a text thanking me and asking if we could do something as a family tomorrow.
so, I am going to proceed with caution. I will validate her feelings, and continue with my new growth and lifestyle.
