This morning, she called me for the first time in a week on my cell. She apologized for being rude to me last night. Said that she's been very angry and hurt; all the hurt from the last decade has come right back. That she's raw, and seeing me singing and happy hurts her more.
I said "I'm sorry that you're hurting so much. What can I do to help?"
She said, "You won't do what I need you to do" (meaning move out).
Then she said "I thought I was protected enough to not have my heart broken again, but I was wrong." She was at work, and couldn't talk any longer.
Oh, please. That is such BS, Pin and you know it. She wants out so bad, why doesn't she leave? She is the one who's told you in the past that she can't love you/only stays w/ you for the kids and if she stays w/ you it will only be because of the kids...