He has shown change in the past month which is confusing because he seems to be trying after he says he is done.
What are the "changes?" He just told you to "play nice" with the other woman and took her to the Haunted House w/ your kids! That is not changing. That is cake-eating, Jealousy.
Originally Posted By: Jealousy
Its a vicious cycle that i'm just not sure how to stop.
It's not something you can stop. That is entirely up to him.
Originally Posted By: Jealousy
I figured he seemed upset, said I was being rediculous and I should hold off on filing paper work. Its like he wants the marriage but wants his freedom too.
This is exactly what he wants (and what he currently has). How do you feel about that?
Originally Posted By: Jealousy
I will not let him ack until she is completely out of the picture, if hes not willing to do that then I will file..
He's showing you right now he's not willing to do that. As long as you're an option, he is going to continue waffling and having the good life...
