Originally Posted By: Coach
She has also connected with a male employee from work who she says is just a fried, but admited that he was interested in her sexually. Although she told him she just wants to be friends, she is always texting him and very secretive of her cell phone.
Completely inappropriate for a married woman to have that level of conversation with another man.

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I guess my other question is whether making her feel guilty a good or bad thing? I have been thinking about going dark and or letting her know that I am considering divorce. Every day that goes by, I feel as if I love her less and less. Its almost like I am now going through what she has gone through and at some point I will be as emotionally detached as she is.




You are not making her feel anything. IF she feels guilty, it is bc she is doing something wrong and she knows it. And there you, letting her get right away with it. Stop the cake eating. She really wants you to lay the law down and be a man about your marriage, instead of an enabling, doting bystander.

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