dc, As long as your up front with this girl about the get together, going out for a drink with her is OK. One your getting your confidence back(Huge has far as being attractive) and two your W will get jealous. Like Starsky said, she will come back to you.
I'm living proof of that scenario.
People want what they can't have.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."