I thought about one of your posts today. How you have come to the realization that quite possibley you were not the best husband you could have been and did not hear what your w was telling you.
it takes great maturity and growth to recognize your faults and to see the other person's perspective. as dbers say you can not change the past but you can the future.
whether you and wife reconcile, you have learned about yourself, i only wish my h would be 1/100th of insightful about himself.
Thanks Jstar. I think I realized that I wasn't the best husband I could have been when she first blew-up on me. It took me longer to realize that I just didn't understand what she was trying to tell me. Regardless, when I finally did accept that there was more that I should do, doing those things just drove her further away. Go figure. Now all there is left to do is to let her figure out what she really wants. Maybe this is it. If so, I will have regrets, but I will ultimately be ok.
thanks to you and to all for your continued support through this hellish period in my life. It is GREATLY appreciated.
