One other thing that I wanted to throw out regarding this is that none of these stressors go away when a WAW leaves her M. In fact, I would argue that everyone involved is just going to have MORE stress in their lives due to the situation. How do these people see walking away as a change for the better?
And this is why removing yourself from the sitch is so important. You were the one constant that they blame. Do not give them more reasons to continue to blame you.
Excellent point! She now has no one to blame but herself. she sure was ornery yesterday, lol !!!
