Thx for the responses. What am I trying to achieve right now ? I am looking for someone less emotionally involved than I to take a more objective look at the scenario that I find myself in and consider whether my anxiety is paranoia and I should give my wife space to enrich her life by the mutual enjoyment of things that I cannot share with her in quite the same way as another, or if doing so constitutes serious risk of passively `allowing' her to wander into territory where there is real danger of an affair.

I do not have any friends who I feel I can discuss this with - that is why I am reaching out.

Do lots of LSD partners rediscover their desire in the arms of another ?