I have been told to start a new thread as the old one was too long!
Anyway quick update, wife left me, stripped house, took 2 kids, renting a house close to our home I'm in.
I was not there for her, verbally abusive, stressed out, now on anti-deppressants, and not drinking at all.
We text/Talk about the kids, but thats about it, no mention of D, but no mention of getting back together?
So I have moved on, I'm exercising, lost weight, more happier, probs my meds, re-decorating house, getting out more with friends, and generally becoming a better person!
Anyway, there is a girl from work who I have always got on with, she is only 29, I'm 39, she is very very attractive, and all the guys have tried to take her out to no avail.
Yesterday we were just talking generally, and she asked what was going on with me, weight loss, my attitude, my happiness, etc, she even asked if my wife was pregnant!!!
I told her in confidence what had happened, told her it's not looking good for us, but I'm working on me, trying to be a better and "getting a life"!!
She was totally shocked, but I was even more so, when she asked as I was single would I be interested taking her for a drink sometime!!!!!
She then told me she had always found me attractive, but I was a "happily" married man, and she never let her feelings known!
I was totally taken back, she is stunning, goes to the gym 4-5 times a week, has a choice of men, and asked me out?
I said give me the weekend to think about it, I didn't want to mess her about and would tell her on Monday, she was fine about it and understood totally.
What do I do now?, I want my marriage to work, but my wife doesn't, I need to GAL, I have, but with the changes I have female attention!, if I take her out it could totally ruin any chance of my marriage ever getting back on track, but if it is over, why not move on and go for a drink?
