Wow, thanks for posting, you guys. I'll bet that took real courage, especially with all of us HDers bumming around.

Believe me, I know that there is nothing "wrong" with my husband. I just think that he could make some attempts to meet me halfway. And I also know there are only about a zillion things that I could do better.

I think that this is a sad situation for BOTH parties. I am glad that we can help each other. Not all HD spouses are as able to communicate to their LD spouses as "easily" as I can, so perhaps you can even learn a bit from me and the rest of us HDers.

All I am looking for is some insight. It is a completely different language that my husband and I speak. I feel as if I have bought a few translators and am making a real effort to get to know the culture and the people, but the language is still a mystery. I think my husband is still sratching his head and wondering how he ended up in this foreign land.

Thanks again for posting!