Yep, she got very sick late last year, I looked after her, and the kids non stop for nearly 3 months. Now she is telling me she resents me for that and that she's a strong and independent woman and I took that way from her by helping out so much. What was I supposed to do at that point, abandon her?
She does want to leave the marriage but then I make an attempt to GAL and join a meetup socialising group, and she gets all jealous assuming that I'm going to start dating. It's just impossible to know what to do...