Now let her stew for a bit I guess and get my lawyer geared up.
From this point on....until a R, she needs to wonder what you are up to. Out late with a friend? You don't owe her details. Talking on the phone in very soft tones or going to the other room to talk in private? She doesn't need to know details. Do you have a lawyer? Hummmm, perhaps.Be mysterious, but not rediculas.... Be cool.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Be cool.