Pie - I hope the warm fuzzy feeling stays with you awhile, but don't be surprised if all of a sudden anger pops up. Anger at his not talking to you, about how he handled things that effected your entire family. Remember the rule I forgot, let it go for 24-48 hours and then vent here.
The totally disconnected feeling is weird, isn't it? I don't feel "his" anymore, means you feel no emotional, physical, or mental obligation to him. Just be sure it's not a passing moment, and you don't do anything you'll regret later.
Lastly, You were not surpressing him. Only HE could do that, and he did it to himself if it was done at all. He is still trying to get you to shoulder the blame for the R and his feelings.
