This is true, some of the critisims I am getting from my wife are absolutely correct, but no one is anywhere near perfect, her included.
At the moment she has rewritten history to blame me for everything, it's my fault even if it's raining outside. There is nothing good, or never has been anything good about me.
Is it not possible that some or even half of the blame might lay with her?
Sure she's to blame....but I suspect she's trying to justify leaving the M. You know, if you are a good ole Joe that everyone loves, she's not going to have much favor with people, so she's got to come up with excuses.
You know how we women are so bad to use the words "always" and "never"? Well I think rewriting history is part of this. The other part is she chooses not to remember the good times......at least she's not going to bring it up. That would be a point for the other team (in her POV).
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
