I think based on your posts, H wanted to make contact first and second, values your opinion.
I think your NC approach has a huge affect on him right now. It seems to be shorter stints of time between his back-off and then connection phases (correct me if you think I'm wrong).
IMO, for now go forward with the money transfer, if you agree with it and don't mention the settlement. It's a lot to ask, but you are making progress with H.
((((Cas and Rabbit))))
Thanks you two for the support and good wishes. I'll post tonight or tomorrow how it went today.
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11