In the aftermath of my wifes EA/PA dealing with the I love you not in Love with you. The "affair break up " was about a month ago. I responded in all the wrong ways first few weeks. She became self protective, angry, resentful. The roller coaster. I have done a few 180's avoiding R talk as much as possible. I have started to notice a subtle change in her behavior. I am being more pleasant so she is. She is begining to open up a little. She actually will allow a friendly touch vs pulling away like i am the plague.We are holding normal conversations avoiding R talk. But now what? With schedules we really have a week of minimal contact, 4 days of none do I go dark on those days? Do those subtle changes mean anything? Thanks to any and all who respond.
