Well another nice week. No R talk. A little withdrawn still but still ok to talk to. Letting him do most of the effort there. Managed to not tell D13 To text her dad that her painting was on display. Last night he was home for tea and d13 arranged candles in the shape of a heart in front of where we sit. I looked at it as h had been staring at it and simply said we love you too. He seemed to relax after that. I think the girls apply their own pressure so I babe to make sure I don't apply any