I did it! I feel so awesome! I feel like I am stepping off the emotional roller coaster she's put me on.
I gae her the note. We got home went to bedroom. I told her exactly what note said, she said your spyin gon me.
I said what how? She said checking my messages. I said I pay the bill so I view the bill online. That's not spying.
She told me he's just a friend and that shes getting legal help from his cousin whos a lawyer. I said I dont care what he is the relationship is inappropriate and IU won't put up with it.
I told her I didn't appreciate her telling me she was getting a divorce and then spending six weeks day dreaming, not taking care of the house, and not trying to get a job or get a divorce on my dime.
She walked out of room.
I got my stuff to go then knocked on her door. Went in and told her I thought she needed to make alternative housing arrangements. If she wanted to get divorced she should move out.
She was fuming. I said it all in a very calm voice. Then I left and went to jiu jitsu. I felt awesome and went to dinner with a friend of mind.
I checked the phone records... she texted him a few times then started calling her mom. She never calls her mom and was avoiding her this whole time. They talked for 30 minutes or so. I can imagine how that convo went.
I FEEL AWESOME!!
Now let her stew for a bit I guess and get my lawyer geared up.
Isnt the relief and freedom of being in control awesome... Don't lose this
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11