Hello, just a quik rundown. 1 yr. ago W annouced she was leaving our marriage and she was going to pursue a relationship with someone else. She moved in with her sister. I told her after almost three months that if this is what she wants that we should finalize things. Actually "she was with me or without me", because when we did see each other we got along so good. Well she moved back in at the end of Jan. but slept in seperate rooms. Things were slowly improving until her sister moved away in august. She said it was like empty nest syndrome all over again. About 1 mo, ago she annouced she wasn't happy and that it would be better for both of us to end the mariage.
None of this would indicate that you should be in "piecing", that's where couples are working together to rebuild their marriage, I read none of that in your post.
It would seem you were working at it, she had other plans that you didn't know about.
