Follow Donna's wording! Too many red flags newmama! You're an employed mother with a baby...you don't have space in your life to take on someone else's problems. Talking about future relationship that quickly is a huge red flag. YOu want someone grounded in your life, not a flake. Gotta be RUTHLESS about weeding out guys who aren't right for you. I know it's hard
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.