DanF,

I thought about one of your posts today. How you have come to the realization that quite possibley you were not the best husband you could have been and did not hear what your w was telling you.

it takes great maturity and growth to recognize your faults and to see the other person's perspective. as dbers say you can not change the past but you can the future.

whether you and wife reconcile, you have learned about yourself, i only wish my h would be 1/100th of insightful about himself.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline