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[newmama]

ok so I know not to see him but I have to find a way to let him know I am not interested.

Thanks for reassuring me about talking and that it wasn't leading him on. We were throwing around times for meeting on Saturday. He wanted to meet tonight and I said "no, I can't..." without having a really good reason (couldn't meet after 7:30). So he asked about Saturday and he said he wasn't sure of the details yet. He asked me what time would work for me so I did give him an answer, like "after 5" but I need to come up with a pat response to avoid these kinds of traps! 'let me think about it and get back to you' might work...


So what if I did this tonight:
don't answer the phone when he calls (I could seriously go to bed in an hour anyway)

text him to let him know that I think we are in different places in our life and I am not interested in pursuing anything further.

what do you think????
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