I think BBJ said before she can't stay mad at people. That's an admirable trait.
I don't have any advice because this just wouldn't happen between me and STBXW. Our lives are almost entirely separate and there's very, very little altering the schedule.
Of course, I see them so many days that I rarely feel like I'm disconnected.
I think eventually he'll stop with the hateful messages. We all grow up sometime. You haven't taken the bait -- but you internalize it maybe too much some times.
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