KML,
I'm with you on all points... But after a year of getting to know each other, talking about our kids, playing chess daily... I thought he was younger, maybe 47 ... But when it turned into a love connection, well... I wanted to pull back when I found out he was 32.
Honestly, the attention and love after DECADES without sex is WOW.
Haven't gone public with kids, family, colleagues... Maybe we never will, but as a HD SSW, I'm just loving being this happy. Crazy -?- yes, but happy too.