I am always amazed at the support and insights you all give me.

Deep, thanks for your thoughts... you have always helped me look at things from a slightly different angle, and always made me think. The distinction between being detached from H but not reality is so important.

GW... I helped you with anxiety b/c... as you know... I know all too much about it. You really made me think about whether I am feeling guilt that I am doing well when he is not. I didn't realize it but I think you are right my friend. Thanks for pointing that out because now I can make a choice to release it. I have nothing to feel guilty about.

Ladies... you are the best! Thanks for all the encouragement and sharin' the love! smile

OK... now the important stuff: my virtual housewarming party! I was waiting for Pearl and now that she has once again graced us with her lovely presence, we are ready to PARTAY! grin

I don't have my plans for the weekend firmed up yet so I will get back to ya on that.... standby!

(p.s. Deep... if you were getting tips like that, there must be a good reason... so you are most definitely invited! wink )