Well, I could see a 45 year old looking 35, and a guy with those experiences thinking a 35 year old is ok.
But at 54, I'm pretty sure I could be mistaken for a 27 year old's mom. I may still be cute but I do have crows feet and cellulite and have to see my hair stylist every 2 weeks to cover my prematurely gray hair.
And even the 34 year old would be too young to introduce to my kids. Or my mom. And I sure wouldn't want to meet his parents!