feelings as OW seems to be on way out

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Actually, contact w/X is starting to irritate me.

I am not sorry that I was nice to him. The man did have major, major surgery and is not even past the "typical" recovery point. He looks very bad, has sunken eyes and is very thin. I do cut him some slack. But I'm also going to start asking him to do a little more each time.

New Guy knows what is going on w/ex and I am slowly starting to think more about a future w/New Guy. We have mingled our families a little bit but have needed more alone time to get to know each other. Once you have been fried it is hard to trust another person.....