I said that "communication is good". He nodded in agreement and reached out to hug me. We hugged tightly for a few seconds.
So............XH seems to be invested in maintaining our R and also showed signs this evening of being willing to flirt back with me a bit (pretty sure he was flirting with me a bit confused).
Excellent
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you need to view XH as a "guy" you are wanting to go out with
Agree with MHL...I know that you have history and that you know him much more then any guy that you would go on a couple of dates with.....I like MHL thinking to look at him as you would at a stranger that you are interested in....maybe it would give you a fresh perspective.... Trying to remember what was it like to date LOL....mysterious, little flirty, not too available LOL....you know
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO