"Date them all.. especially the one you find most attractive. After all folks always want what they feel they can't have. "
Oh GYpsy - I don't think I can do that! Because the one I find MOST attractive, witty, intelligent and funny - is - um - 27 years old! To my 54! That's only 2 years older than my son. I just CAN'T go there.
However, he makes the 34 year old look positively adult by comparison, so I WILL go out with him again.
I had a "fling" with a 27-year old, and I am 45. He was funny, smart, easy to talk to, and very easy on the eyes. I knew it wouldn't last because he lived in another state and had never been married. In the end I told him to go back to his home and find a woman to marry and have babies with, cuz that wasn't going to be me! It was fun while it lasted and it gave my self-confidence an amazing boost.....so go with your gut and enjoy the experience. You can call the shots!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn