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Did you put a transparency plan in place when you said "No open marriage...?"



I did. Also key logger, GPS, so forth.


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If you did, start exercising it. If not, shame on you.



Yeah, well....She sleeps with her phone, showers with it, and when I do look at it, she is smart enough and has time to erase the msgs. I do look at the billing but the individual txt are not listed. It drove me crazy for a long time. How much proof do I need? There were never any 'I love you's, or can't wait to see you,' or any such. Just the sheer number of them, the flirty tone of them and the times, day and night.

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And if I file, I still won't leave my home. She'll get the boot...


Yep. If I can afford the house, I would love to keep it.


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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