H's MLC - he is still lost but I found myself

[Mila]

Hi SA - I don't think my H is anywhere close to being done with this....I think the reality of everything that has happened and the consequences may be sinking in...hence the renewed depression...but for all I know he may think that the OW is still worth the price he is paying. I think if he wanted to come back he would say something regardless if he thought that I may turn him down...if he wanted back he would try to get closer....and at that point I could decide if I want to give him any hope or not...but that's just what I think my H would do....maybe your H would need some encouragement...I'd say we all have to use our knowledge of their personality or whatever is left of it in MLC and use our gut feeling the rest of the time.