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Do not file unless you want to divorce her. Don't do it as a tactic.



I get this part. I won't do it as a tactic. My L is retained and W has questioned why I hired one if I don't want a D. I have answered to protect myself and the kids.

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Think about what she needs to feel safe to leave...


Please help me flesh this out. I am a good dad. She doesn't have to worry about them being with me. What else?


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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